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Issue
no: 21 |
22nd November, 2010 |
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After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office.
The director noticed the tear in the youth’s eye, asked: “Can you tell what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?”
The youth answered, “I cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes’
The director asked, “please tell me your feeling.”
The youth said:
Number 1, I knew what appreciation is, without my mother, there would be no success for me today.
Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.
Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, “ This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company’s result improved tremendously.
A child who had been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed “entitlement mentality” and always put himself first. He is ignorant of his parent’s effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others. For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more.
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If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid? |
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You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. |
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It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. |
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You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow grey, same as the mother of that young person. |
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The most important thing is that your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get things done. |
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